Candy Arrington is an award‐winning writer, blogger and speaker. Candy’s credits include three traditionally published nonfiction books (AFTERSHOCK: Help, Hope, and Healing in the Wake of Suicide, When Your Aging Parent Needs Care, and Life on Pause: Learning to Wait Well). Her blog, Forward Motion, speaks to maintaining a forward‐ looking perspective despite difficulty and learning from life situations: CandyArrington.com.